We are creating our reality thought by thought...moment by moment. Once we realize that we are continually creating our reality, we can then take deliberate control of what we are creating by focusing our thoughts and our attention on the things that we want in our lives. There was a song out in the 70's and 80's by the Dramatics called "What You See Is What You Get". That, to me, tells the whole story. If you constantly see drama, pain, and you think that life is tough, that is what you will draw into you life. If you see and look for love, joy, and peace, you will draw more of that into your life. It's time we stopped blaming others for our station in life and living "accidentally. If you don't like what you have, deliberately focus on what you want and let the universe meet your needs. There is enough for us all!!